oh! so you mean I don't have to help EVERYONE?

Weekly Say No With Love Newsletter oh! so you mean I don't have to help EVERYONE? Reader, I truly believe that the desire to help—or perhaps to feel useful—is innate. It’s wired into us. We can’t help it! But here’s my boldest and most transformative takeaway to date: sometimes, I have to say no to this desire to help. And let me tell you, that’s not an easy thing to do. Saying no to someone who needs help, especially in a field I care deeply about, requires a very specific “no” muscle, one...